Exclusive: Why any girl/lady would Want a breakup.

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Girls might be unpredictable sometimes but are usually carefully before they make their decision, they must have spent some time thinking about it, over and over again and I'm sure that she must have asked are friends. She will choose to settle things with her lover than breaking up But women have their limits too and their pride (probably, she has thrown it away again and again just for love sake but you just made her pick it up again). When she can no longer take in what you give to her, it either she fight you or leave. Here are reasons why girls break up with their boyfriends.

When she knows that you are cheating

Strong and the most reason why every relationship that haa broken up ended that way. If a girl should find out that you are cheating, she might not tell you she knows, most time there is no explaining yourself, there is nothing you can say to change the result at the end, although she might hear even you out but the result will still be the same......., break up 💔.

She likes/loves someone else.

OMG, it one of the most painful reason a a girl would want to break up, It can make you as a guy feel like you have a terrible luck. It might not be because she is the cheating type but maybe it is on its way there. Sometimes, people let go because it’s easier than to hold on and it might be true in this case. Being in a

relationship with someone while being in love with someone else is definitely one of the worse thing to do to oneself and to the other, it will surely sooner or later drive the romance out of the that relationship.

She loves money/ you are stingy

This is a straightforward reason, just as short as you can see it, she loves money and you can provide it. Most girls will claim that they don't actually love money but trust me, most if them definitely would not want to stick with a poor guy. As a guy, this reason might actually leave you without a choice than to let go. There is also a case whereas you find it hard to give out to her, you are afraid that they will just use you and dump you, they might think you are stingy and at the end you have a failed relationship.

She feels alone/lonely

There is no stopping the break up, it a fact that someone else will come and make her feel no longer lonely. A girl will feel alone if her man makes her feel like she doesn’t matter anymore. When she doesn’t make him feel excited and in love anymore can break a girl's heart. If she feels that room is a bit bigger now than before and there is a wall between them, it might be time for her to leave the room. Men often fall into their comfort zone after getting into a relationship but women always want to try to do something new and fall in love with each other every day but if her man is too lazy to do these things with her, it will kill the romance, who want to be in a boring relationship, I can tell you with my mouth wide open that, no one will want that.

He doesn’t take interest on her life/conversations.

A girl will always want to give you a reason to be curious about her and what ever she tells you, if you are often not, She feels like she’s not interesting anymore, not a bit funny and worse of all, boring. He might not have even complimented her on several occasions. Communicating with each other is as important as taking notice on little things about her, and he failed to do this. The moment he stopped asking about her was the moment he stopped caring, well the care is simply out of the relationship and at times, the guy can just be the naturally non curious type.

You don’t need to stare into her eyes—that’s just creepy. But tear your eyes away from your iPhone, dinner, or the basketball game and look at her when she’s talking to you. This conveys you care about her story and, in turn, her . It is one of the best way to strengthen your bond and make that relationship last longer. Your silence says a lot. By not asking follow-up questions to her stories, you’re expressing that you’re not interested in her life.

No care, you don't make her feel unique but rather worthless

Well, ladies will always want to be in a relationship with caring guy, a guy that makes them feel Like they are are one in a million(unique), the moment you stop doing that, she start to thought your love for her. She love guys that can take them out and make they look like a queen, like they worth it.

You Try to Fix Everything

It good to be reliable but not the ITk type, it good to be able to fix things but not always everything. Ladies don't want a guy that don't make them feel involve, it like you can do without them, even when you can fix it, they would like you to ask help from them and probably fix it together.

You are too secretive

A Lady will always want to know all about you. What you are thinking when you are silent, Your past love. The moment you stop talking, stop telling her what is on your mind, what bothering you...

She start feeling like you don't truth her any longer and there will be a time she would not be able to tolerate it any longer. Nothing’s more annoying than a man you can’t figure out. A little mystery is what women need from time to time but a completely foggy image around him can give us serious jb and makes one wander if you really are in a relationship or a wonderland. Mysteries and surprises are good in a relationship, wen they are at a moderate amount, it a good way to introduce new things but you just swing mood and make the girl feel as if you are a total stranger to her... She will just end up leaving you with an heartbreak.

You don't give her the time she deserves.

Every lady want a guy that will give them an 100% attention. There will always be a time she wants to be close to you, be in your arms and tell you what she is passing through. He doesn’t have time for her anymore (priorities have changed).

Girls know the exact day her boyfriend change her place to the bottom of his priorities. It could be the day he cancelled the date for other important meetings or the forgot an important discussion that they had, plans they made or even the time he might been physically there but his mind was totally off, wandering in another planet that she couldn’t travel to or know about. She feels like he no longer has her on his mind or plans for the future so rather than staying with the fear of been forgotten, she’d rather go back to the past where he doesn’t exist and they have nothing in to do together. Texting is perfectly acceptable when you want to ask a quick question or just feel like changing to a new style of communication or when you don't really have airtime or in a place where you can't get one But for conversations that are long and important, pick up the phone and call your girlfriend.

That goes for canceling plans, apologizing, or delivering news, good or bad. When you dial, you show that the issue deserves more than just an emoticon. Ever relationship ends when you stop been there for her, as soon as that stop, someone else will start doing that and there is no way she won't start having divided feelings. It’s okay to hang out with his friends once in awhile, girls also do this but to be with them all the time leaving no time or place for her has affected the relationship. It makes women think that he can be happy even without her and that it made her feel less insignificant than his friends

You Ignore or never do what she want.

Well, it simple but girls don't like guys that never do what they ask of them, it doesn't have to do with money, for example, she might just ask you to do her assignment for her, take her out, arrange the shelve for her but you never do them, she start feeling like you can't do anything for her or you just want to use her and go. You have to be able to help your girlfriend if you want the relationship to continue.

You fight too often.

When you are in a relationship where you guys always fight, it doesn't feels comfortable, rather, it feels like hell, I'm sure no one would want to be in that kind of relationship or continue that relationship, it make the girl wonder if you love her at all, and why not... Fight isn't a good thing to talk about. It will surely wreck the relationship.

You Never Say “I’m Sorry”

Every girl hate this, in fact, it doesn't take long for the relationship to get broken when this is in play. Saying the word "sorry" won’t cost you your girlfriend’s respect. It means you’re willing to admit you were wrong because you love her that much and you are will to let go just for her.

An apology from your heart has the power to mend hurt feelings and restore a strained relationship. And in most cases you are not always 100% at fault, She’ll probably say she’s sorry, too and the fight is over.

Never stay silent after a fight, it can't get worse, try to setle things first.

This are the reason we think a girl would want to breakup in any relationship, let us know what you think about it, if you have others reasons as well please add it by using out comment box and we will be sure to add it to the post and thank you.

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